Monday, November 12, 2007

Update 11/20/07

Sorry, I have not written lately. You see I want to remain positive and I want all that read this, to remain positive. I hope that we can all focus on the small advances and not the setbacks. I have been told that it is normal to take, two steps forward and one step back. Also, keep in mind that the information ,I am providing is either coming directly from a family member or from hospital staff. The issue is that, on any given day, depending on what nurse, therapist, or doctor you encounter. Their views or their information are not always in sync.

So, on that note! As of now Abelina is still in ICU and has been trying to excrete fluid in her lungs. Unfortunately, it is a huge challenge and it takes a tremendous amount of inner strength as well as an attentive nursing staff! She has been on an off the Ventilator for several days, but has remained off of it all day today. She is back on track! As far as the wires on her teeth and jaw they will most likely not be off for another few weeks. So pray for Abelina to keep her strength and not focus on what she cannot express.

On a brighter note, sitting up in a wheelchair may not be to far off.

Thank You from all of our hearts to all of you that have reached out to help Abelina and the kids. Most of the time we only are exposed to the ugliness in todays society, via the media and the rumor mill. But if this situation has taught me anything. It has taught me not to doubt our fellow man, it has restored my faith in mankind.

Diana Tate and The entire Magana Family

13 comments:

Betty and Wayne Lenherr said...

Hi Abelina, we just wanted you to know that not a day goes by that Wayne and I don't think of you and Abraham jr.,Claudia and Angel.We are praying for you and we know that you are a very strong and beautiful women.We are so happy to hear that each day you are accomplishing more and more and getting better.We know this will be a long journey for you but we know you can do it.You have accomplished so much all ready in everything that you do.Our hearts go out to you.Love from Wayne and Betty Lenherr

Unknown said...

Abelina,

I just wanted to let you know that Angelica, Emma, and I are continuing to pray for you and your family. I check the web every day looking for updates and to hear that you are improving and getting stronger. You are an amazing woman and I know you will pull through this. Stay strong - we all love you.

Kim St. Hilaire

Easyapp.com said...

Abelina, we thinkand pray for you daily. If I can help with anything at all please have the appropriate person contact me. I know we are going to see you in the vibrant way you always were, the power of God, his love for you and all of the prayers will be heard and God can and will do amazing things. Our hearts are with you the Barbera's.

Unknown said...

Abelina,
You are a shining light. I'm happy to hear good news about your progress, so thankful to your friend Diana for keeping us all posted. I think of you and pray for you every day, and send you healing energy all the time. And sending you special energy now for easy, deep, full, nurturing breaths.

Much love and blessings,
Marianne Schwerdtfeger

Leanne Trahan said...

Hello Magana & Tate Family,

Diane thank yo so much for the updates. The first thing I do each morning is check to see how things are, and as always Abalina you are amazing us all. Diana Thank you for the call Monday night, I am happy to wait until Abalina is rested and strong before I visit. Rest is a very important part of healing. How about another meal? Are you ready? I will just leave it at your door. Give a big kiss to all the little ones.

xoxo

Leanne, Jeff, Chris & Cole Trahan

maganafamily said...

You are amazing individuals. I pray for each one of you, the Magana and Tate families and know that God is holding each of you in his loving arms. I personally know for a fact that dozens of churches are praying specifically for your sweet mother and for you Abraham, Claudia, and Angel as well as the remarkable Tate’s. I hope you feel the prayers working in your lives. I just know your mother feels the prayers. You have a large community of people eager to assist in anyway you see fit, please reach out and allow them to support you. All my love and kindest wishes, Erin

shelly said...

Hello Abeline. You do not know me, I work at the Tiburon office as the admin assistant. I think of you every day and pray that you will continue to make progress. I hear only lovely things about you and also that you are a very strong woman. I know you have many, many friends supporting you and a loving family by your side. Now you have me, even though you don't know me! Please know that I wish you well and if your family needs any help with cooking, cleaning, tutoring for your children, someone to read to them, an ear to listen, a smile for encouragement - anything at all - to please call me. Our office ph is 435-1000 and my home is 381-1151.

eli said...

tia youre a fighter- it's in our blood:]
when my dad came back to arizona the other day, he told me that despite everything you still manage to keep a smile on your face.."Abelina you're something else." You amaze me. i think about you and my cousins every minute of the day, and every night before i go to bed i pray for you. i cant wait to go see you again.
te quiero mucho mucho mucho (times a bajillion)

love elie

Wendy said...

Hola Abelina,
You don't know me but I knew your wonderful friend Diana, when our sons played soccer together. I,too, check your blog every day to see how you are doing. You are constantly I my mind and in my thoughts. I've had an illness where I often thought that I would not be able to be with my three beautiful children, so I know how difficult it must be for you not to be with yours. I look forward to the day when you are able to return to Abraham, Angel and Claudia. Que preciosos estan! I will do anything I can to help you or your family in the future. Tu y tu familia estan en mi corazon.
Cuidate Mucho,
Wendy

Troy & Rebecca said...

Our sweet friend Abelina,
We are thinking of you everyday and pray for your recovery. You are an amazing woman and that gets reflected in your children. Abraham, Claudia and Angel are great and we text them almost everyday so they know we care and that we are keeping our tabs on them.
Rest assured that John, Diana, Johnny and Kylie are taking awesome care of your kids. We also pray for them relentlessly that the good Lord would continue to bless them with whatever they need to take care of all who live at their home. We're coming back out to Napa Valley this weekend for a week and hopefully get to give you our love but also to check in on your kids and the Tates.
Stay strong as you always are and know that God is watching over all of you. Love, Troy & Rebecca

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Unknown said...

Un inmenso saludo y un gran deseo de tu pronta recuperacion para ti Abelina.

Hoy declaro y le pido a Dios que se interponga y te ilumine para que junto a el logres estar con los tuyos muy pronto.
Tu gran espiritu es mas grande que tu cuerpo y solo asi podremos todos superar nuestros obstaculos que son solo eso, asi que animo, que aunque no te conozco personalmente se por tu hermano y amigo Pascual de donde vienes y que eres alguien con constancia y fortaleza por lo tanto utiliza todos tus recursos de tu espiritu para salir adelante junto a esa gran familia que te adora.
Ya los admiro y quiero fraternalmente.

Solo recuerda muy bien, tu puedes superar este camino que se te ha presentado porque tienes las bases solidas para esto.
No importa que tan dificil sea el trecho, lo que vale mas es la fe para superarlo.

Como hijos de Dios, tambien tenemos derecho y no solo le he pedido por ti sino que le aclamo por otra hija de el.
Que Dios te bendiga hoy y siempre.
Carlos G. Manzo

Wendy said...

Dear Diana,
You don't need to apologize for not writing for a few days. Everyone realizes how draining this all must be for you. We can all still remain positive about Abelina's progress in the light of setbacks. Take care of yourself,too.
Thinking of you and your family,Abelina and her beautiful children.

Wendy, Raul, Eloi, Julian and Adrian.